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He wants to jump through hoops to catch up and I keep blowing him off. I should probably say fuck off but after 12 years of friendship I guess I want it to be more gallant? He's rich and bought a blonde blue eyed virgin from eastern europe... I'm just pretty much disgusted with him.

He wants to jump through hoops to catch up and I keep blowing him off. I should probably say fuck off but after 12 years of friendship I guess I want it to be more gallant? He's rich and bought a blonde blue eyed virgin from eastern europe... I'm just pretty much disgusted with him.

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[–] [Deleted] 4 points (+4|-0)

i had a somewhat similar situation. i told him its good he called and we hung out for a bit because if i had just seen him out and about, I might have broken his jaw. i was proud of how awkward that made things for the rest of the round of golf. haven't spoken to him since. happy.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0)

That could work. He called from an unknown number and I don't think he'll give up... I have 2 dudes in my life like this atm... some people don't give up. If I met with him he'd maybe get the picture but he'd want to know my work out tricks and shit. dude hasn't let up... the other one keeps trying to get my wife on FB because he learnt I don't use it anymore... it's strange the brah to brah attraction... I told him we could meet at the dollar store for Gatorade if he could hit 500 pushups in a day and he just asked where... it's fucking weird I don't get bromance shit anymore... just want to hermit and deal with my own.... I'll let you know how this one ends up I'd rather just feed squirrels though honestly.....

[–] [Deleted] 2 points (+2|-0)

Couldn't you just watch a gladiator movie together or something?

[–] E-werd 4 points (+4|-0)

There's a lot of details unknown here--honestly it sounds like a jealousy issue on your part from the given info--but that doesn't really matter I suppose.

If it were me I'd probably just try to cut all interactions really short, use one-word responses, stuff like that. It's probably not the best way, but it's the path of least resistance.

Alternatively you could straight up tell him you don't want to catch up and it would be better if he didn't contact you again. I don't see that going particularly smooth, but it would probably end it quicker.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0) Edited

I bigged him up a bunch back in the day and he just kept using me and I got sick of his shit... There's only so much I'm willing to teach someone about women. Jealous? for the money his parents gave him maybe because my parents didn't have that money or stability. That's not the situation though. I just want him to leave me alone under nice terms. Can you come up with something better than acting like a prom girl to a bad date? I don't want to sound like that... I just want him gone and happy in his life. I'm happy for him because back home nobody would touch him and if this makes him happy... so be it

edit: reread... one word responses haven't worked. He kept calling even after I blocked his number. And I'm waiting on a job so I can't ignore any phone calls from numbers here...

[–] [Deleted] 2 points (+2|-0)

You're disgusted with him because he is living the dream?

[–] [Deleted] 0 points (+0|-0)

I'm not disgusted with him because he doesn't know better. I taught him to slay women and he had to go buy a girl on the other side of the world because his father forbid him from dating and marrying a Chinese woman here that loved and helped him to where he is emotionally. and he isn't white, and it's racism. So he dropped large amounts of money to keep courting this pasty white girl because his father wanted him to be with a white as the eldest of their family. why don't you ask a fucking real question? Money hasn't mattered to me since I left a 2200 a week salary for insurance management. I see how people think and I get really fucking disgusted at this whole empirical game. I gave him opportunities to leave me alone when I found happiness and I expected more from your ass than I did from him. The dream? he's probably miserable and needs some fucking advice. why? she's probably hating Canada as she was clubbing and with family and friends in eastern Europe before this fuck bag brought her here promising the world.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0)

They aint shit. They should take the hint and leave you alone.

Be rude if you have to.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0)

I don't want to be rude but yea... no hint taken it's been 4 fucking years

[–] DopeOnARope 0 points (+0|-0)

I find the best method is to be blunt and honest. Just tell him you don't want to be friends.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0) Edited

this is what I needed to hear. thank you.... I've been tiptoeing about this too long.... that's the answer thank you again

edit: it's hard to not be emotional with a twelve year friendship... and I'm not already good with feelings.