Sexism

wont bother you if you 'belong' to another man

Or to put it another way, they won't bother you if another man already belongs to you. Only the most base of scum will attempt to interpose on a committed relationship like that, and it sounds like you're complaining men aren't being scummy enough.

I don't see how this is sexism. Unless you're calling heterosexualality sexism.

Or possibly you're calling yourself sexist because you're condescending towards men who try pursuing women?

Aside from my confusion as to why you're titling this 'sexism', another interpretation of your situation is that men have to take action to get what they want in social situations.

Some men only want conversation from women so they talk to those who they think are taken. Others want more sexual interaction, so they go for those who they think are single.

Would you prefer that men who want sex pursue married women and men who want conversation pursue single women?

People don’t notice if you have a ring on.

Humans are caloric misers.

It is less tiring for you to wear a ring that to constantly tell potential suitors that you are committed to a relationship.

The full peacocking display put on by those you think of as "boys" is calorically expensive. But you seem to appreciate that they continue to do favors for you and take you out for drinks.

MGTOW Moment: With the ring you continue to garner attention ('oh. Miss H, do you need help? How are you? Lets go have timmies!!' And im like 'fuck yeah. Bet'), you just don't have to stress over potentially damaging a relationship by directly rejecting a suitor's advances.

There are grills on Phuks??!

some of this is a consequence of lack of socialization because techno-addictions

this used to be sorted out at a much younger age.

The answer is simple, the metallic ions from the ring blocks the syrup pheromones secreted by the female Canadian.

I'm male. When I was younger, after I got married I was propositioned by more women than ever. Some people want the affection without the possibility of it turning into a commitment.

Relevant funny TrippinThroughTime post.

Why do you wear your engagement ring on some days and not others?

this reminds me of several years ago when i went out dancing with a large group of friends. i hit it off right away with the girl who was engaged to a deployed grunt who was thrilled to be out with guys who were totally down to go out dancing because her fiance never would. does it make me a boy or sexist that i refused to take her home at the end of the night because i neither wanted the grunt to get dear john'd nor did i want some grunt following me home from work one night? if you asked my friends at the time, it was a clear signal that i'm gay. if you asked her friend, it was because i'm an asshole. i just wanted a nice time out dancing...