Sexism

this reminds me of several years ago when i went out dancing with a large group of friends. i hit it off right away with the girl who was engaged to a deployed grunt who was thrilled to be out with guys who were totally down to go out dancing because her fiance never would. does it make me a boy or sexist that i refused to take her home at the end of the night because i neither wanted the grunt to get dear john'd nor did i want some grunt following me home from work one night? if you asked my friends at the time, it was a clear signal that i'm gay. if you asked her friend, it was because i'm an asshole. i just wanted a nice time out dancing...

Are you saying that boys in law school are douches?
I'm not surprised. :)

Is that actually sexism though? Or is it horny kids who are assholes?

Because men usually aren't going to invest a lot of time on a woman that they have "interest" in if they're taken. Otherwise, you're a normal person; they'll treat you as such. Which means that if you're taken, you have to earn friendship and comradery whereas if you're not, you don't have to work quite as hard at it.

The answer is simple, the metallic ions from the ring blocks the syrup pheromones secreted by the female Canadian.

Relevant funny TrippinThroughTime post.

I don't see how this is sexism. Unless you're calling heterosexualality sexism.

Or possibly you're calling yourself sexist because you're condescending towards men who try pursuing women?

Aside from my confusion as to why you're titling this 'sexism', another interpretation of your situation is that men have to take action to get what they want in social situations.

Some men only want conversation from women so they talk to those who they think are taken. Others want more sexual interaction, so they go for those who they think are single.

Would you prefer that men who want sex pursue married women and men who want conversation pursue single women?

I'm male. When I was younger, after I got married I was propositioned by more women than ever. Some people want the affection without the possibility of it turning into a commitment.

Why do you wear your engagement ring on some days and not others?

There are grills on Phuks??!

some of this is a consequence of lack of socialization because techno-addictions

this used to be sorted out at a much younger age.

It sounds like you're getting attention either way, but not always the type of attention you like?

Timmies is Tim Hortons?