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I didnt think this was true but alright.

If yall have been following, Im in a law program in downtown toronto for about 20h a week for 10months.

Anyway

I noticed that on some days, I get alot of attention, and some, people ignore the fuck out me.

Ive noticed whenever I wear my engagement ring, people are nice. Like 'oh. Miss H, do you need help? How are you? Lets go have timmies!!' And im like 'fuck yeah. Bet'

When i dont, people are like 'eyo gurrrl! How u dooinnn?'

Complete 360 change in mood.

Basically, after researching on it, i came to the conclusion that 'boys' (not men) wont bother you if you 'belong' to another man

But dont give a shit if youre alone bevause 'women are free for taking'

Didnt agree with it, but id like other opinions on this.

Yes im female ffs.

I didnt think this was true but alright. If yall have been following, Im in a law program in downtown toronto for about 20h a week for 10months. Anyway I noticed that on some days, I get alot of attention, and some, people ignore the fuck out me. Ive noticed whenever I wear my engagement ring, people are nice. Like 'oh. Miss H, do you need help? How are you? Lets go have timmies!!' And im like 'fuck yeah. Bet' When i dont, people are like 'eyo gurrrl! How u dooinnn?' Complete 360 change in mood. Basically, after researching on it, i came to the conclusion that 'boys' (not men) wont bother you if you 'belong' to another man But dont give a shit if youre alone bevause 'women are free for taking' Didnt agree with it, but id like other opinions on this. Yes im female ffs.

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[–] Itsame 3 points (+3|-0)

I don't see how this is sexism. Unless you're calling heterosexualality sexism.

Or possibly you're calling yourself sexist because you're condescending towards men who try pursuing women?

Aside from my confusion as to why you're titling this 'sexism', another interpretation of your situation is that men have to take action to get what they want in social situations.

Some men only want conversation from women so they talk to those who they think are taken. Others want more sexual interaction, so they go for those who they think are single.

Would you prefer that men who want sex pursue married women and men who want conversation pursue single women?