Even when these instances happen they still make excuses, they never learn.
The story that hit me most was a guy's daughter was murder by one, and he collected money to help migrants at the funeral! Insanity!
No, she put herself in a situation that seems naive with hindsight, but this was an entirely different situation. Stupid and silly, but not wilful.
Wilful
having or showing a stubborn and determined intention to do as one wants, regardless of the consequences or effects.
I think wilful applies.
Are you saying she knew that she was going to be kidnapped and raped and she insisted on going anyway? Then yes, in that case you would be right. She may be wilful, in fact she probably is, but she did not enter this situation wilfully. She was duped into it.
She willfully put herself in this situation. Horrible but easily prevented.