I'd rather have a friend that turns into a lover instead of the other way around.
Honestly I prefer the other way around. Once things don't work out then friend circles get damaged and regular gatherings get disrupted because you don't want X and Y to be there at the same time. If you start out banging and then turn to friends then everything becomes a lot simpler. I lived with probably 6 different people during the time I was friends with that crazy girl and they all loved when I would have her over because the stories were never lame and no one was trying to bang her.
I'd rather have the friendship first. My circle of friends are quite capable of not acting like emotionally crazed animals when things don't go well.
That's not an insult. People can have whatever friends they want. I just don't have patience for drama and all my friends know this.
I just don't have patience for drama and all my friends know this.
Well that's where you fucked up my friend because my friends and I will be talking about "the brittany stories" until our death beds. That was quite a friendship to have
There are a lot of people who either have a breeding fetish or their wires are switched so that dangerous or risky scenarios are a turn on. In either case, they may be fun for a while but they're poorly suited for a reasonable long term relationship for most people.
Honestly, I'd rather have a friend that turns into a lover instead of the other way around. I don't like drama and have absolutely no problem cutting people out of my life no matter how difficult or crazy it gets to remove them. I've had several people removed by police because they thought their drama was more important than my house rules. I'll be patient with it for a bit because everyone gets a bad moment or can twitch once in a while but when it becomes obvious that they have more regard for what they have going on than the safety, peace, etc. of others, they are no longer welcome. Once you cross that line, the response is full-on, wide-open, and swift.