I agree with your conclusions, but I prefer other methods of dealing with it.
I don't think I can child-proof the world, or shelter children from it. I believe they should be taught how to stand up to it on their own.
I understand the parents desire to protect their children and keep them away from negative things, but they will suffer later in life for it.
I know that when I was a child I could, and did get past any censorship I came up against. I was able to get porn as a child before the internet. So I never tried to limit the internet, I instead taught her about what was out there, and how to deal with it, myself first. Then let her explore as she wished.
I was the type of child that made a point of doing everything that I was ever told not to. So when I became the rule-maker, I tried to avoid creating taboos.
Your mileage may vary, though.
I was the same way. My kids were exposed to and learned how to use the internet long before many even knew there was such a thing. And like you, I was the kid who did everything my parents told me I couldn't ... so when it came to my kids, I gave them a lot more freedom to explore. It worked great and both grew up to be outstanding adults (possibly through no fault of my own - LOL), so I agree, we need to raise our kids to grow up ... take responsibility, and discover the world around them. I think many parents today though see the internet and social media just as a place they can send their kids to get them out of their hair, without ever paying attention to what it is they're actually up to.
without ever paying attention
In my opinion that is the most common parenting failure today.
Children need attention. If they don't get it at home, they will find it elsewhere. Add a social media replacement and things don't go so well.
I don't like the idea of two income families. I understand that it's necessary, but I think that aggravates the problem.
My parents never hovered over me, but there was always one available. I tried to do the same. It's a luxury that many can't afford anymore.
I have to agree with your statements.
I am a huge advocate against teens on social media. There should be no reason a 14 year olds self worth revolves around the comments being posted on the internet.
The teen brain and emotions are fragile and should be handled with care and respect. Giving these already vulnerable minds access to online bullying is the fault of the parent. Here's the best thing about online bullying, it stops when you walk away. There is no need to read or participate in an activity that makes you devalue yourself.