... right before I had a serious accident, followed by cancer...
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Two years ago, her father died and she received a sizable inheritance, as well as his house.
Since then, she has kept her finances hidden from me. She filed taxes separately, without telling me. She has spent extravagantly on herself.
She has made no effort to help with our daily finances.
She won’t let us move into her Dad’s house because her “deadbeat” 30-year-old son is living there by himself, having dropped out of college to become a gambler...
wat?