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Don't let it fester.
I don't know anything about your situation, so I can't give much advice. But confronting the situation rather than letting it build up, usually works out better.

[–] [Deleted] 3 points (+3|-0)

Work it out. What signs did you notice? Is it a deal breaker for the marrige?

[–] Chiefpacman 2 points (+2|-0)

No proof just a gut feeling?

More like y’all are growing distant. Getting jealous over literally nothing isn’t a good idea. Maybe try to talk to him and fix it? Be nicer and sexier for a while, see if it sparks a change.

Honestly though, if asking us what to do about it is your first thought- the relationship is probably as good as over? I can understand posting about it after you talked to him, but coming here first isn’t a good sign

[–] smallpond 1 points (+1|-0)

You're not giving us much to go on: I feel like you must be able to describe the basis of your gut feeling in greater detail. If it's really nothing but a gut feeling I'd be inclined to dismiss it as paranoia and start to worry about my own mental state.

On the other hand maybe your husband is clearly an untrustworthy prick, and you're just starting to accept this now. (Off topic, but I don't understand why some people don't have their partners' mobile/computer passwords.)

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0)

hey,

ive been away for work for about two weeks now, and ive noticed hes been distant. i cant call at certain times of the day because 'hes sleeping' and at night hes all quiet and hushhush on the phone.

I feel like coming home early without saying anything and see what i find.