recently had this shit happen. Cousin. Don't do it. don't tell them to join don't tell them who you are. I have it worse because I tied this name to that other site,,,, which wasn't that smart in retrospect. I'm fortunate because it's a family member. He didn't mean harm was just almost doxxing me on voat... just don't do it... don't ever give nothing out IRL to anyone other than spouses or bffs you have a ton of shit on lol.
Well, apparently coding this site gives me more weight on job interviews so I guess the pros outweight the cons ¯\_(ツ)_/¯