my sister is finally getting married after 8 years. She got our other sister to be a Bridesmaid, and my oldest daughter to be a flowergirl. my mum let it slip that shes going to ask me to be the Maid of Honor, and I've been avoiding her for MONTHS. (going on 4 months now)
I'm probably just going to go to Vegas, and then have a party afterwards with my family. I dont know. I cant forsee myself spending that much money on one day.
my sister is finally getting married after 8 years. She got our other sister to be a Bridesmaid, and my oldest daughter to be a flowergirl.
my mum let it slip that shes going to ask me to be the Maid of Honor, and I've been avoiding her for MONTHS. (going on 4 months now)
I'm probably just going to go to Vegas, and then have a party afterwards with my family. I dont know. I cant forsee myself spending that much money on one day.
The weddings are really for the parents, not the participants. Being European decent that is important. I can't start to explain the shitshow that occurred when my brother got married in Vegas.
At the same time, that money could really go a long way for a new couple. Formalities get in the way, they are important to preserve, but they are a ludicrous money hole.