It’s difficult because some queer people have built their sexual identities on these repulsions, but I don’t think they’re innate at all. If you met someone who was extremely attractive, had a great personality, but didn’t have the genitals that you wanted, you might be surprised to find that it isn’t a dealbreaker.
okay, other people say they don't like those things, but you say you personally don't care and think they just don't know what they actually want. How open minded of you.
> It’s difficult because some queer people have built their sexual identities on these repulsions, but I don’t think they’re innate at all. If you met someone who was extremely attractive, had a great personality, but didn’t have the genitals that you wanted, you might be surprised to find that it isn’t a dealbreaker.
okay, other people say they don't like those things, but you say you personally don't care and think they just don't know what they actually want. How open minded of you.
okay, other people say they don't like those things, but you say you personally don't care and think they just don't know what they actually want. How open minded of you.