Specifically what do you think it is about you that qualifies you as either good or bad?
For me, I think I'm a good person because I'm an empath. I feel intense emotions in other people's perspectives and I feel that helps me to understand people better. Therefore most of the time I will position in my mind how my actions/words would be best said so as to minimize negativity. I don't actively seek to harm others and I don't consider myself to be better than anybody else.
I take that back, I do think there are people I am better than, but nothing to do with race or sex. Simply because me not wanting to hurt others makes me better than those that do.
On the flip side, I think I'm a bad person because if you've fallen off my empathy radar than I will never give a fuck about you again. Its harsh, and I can't help it, but if something happens to make me stop feeling emotions in your point of view then I can be devastatingly nonchalant as to what happens to you.
Bad men keep the other bad men from the door. I believe this. Moral relativists would tell you "all cultures are equal". The truth is they aren't and men (as well as women) bleed to preserve their culture. Only "bad men" can lead us out of darkness. The first glimmer of enlightenment in the entirety of written history began with the Greeks. For all their flaws they were the first that truly began considering the nature of life on a grand scale.