The series after Ned's death has deviated too much. You won't read a lot of the scenes, ever, because they don't exist in the books. And vice-versa.
I heard that, and honestly I find it extremely disappointing that a show has trumped the series in importance. But, money is the most powerful force on this earth so I suppose I shouldn't be that surprised.
I'm only in the middle of A Feast for Crows. I refuse to watch the show until I've read the corresponding book first and I've been slacking, a lot...