Tell me about that time you said No.

Shortly after breaking up with a cheating ex, I went to a party and ran into the Mom of the guy she cheated on me with. We party late into the night, and she ends up giving me a ride home. On the way home, she starts hitting on me and invited me to her place. After some deep thought, I turned her down.

It would have been fucking hilarious to see the look on that cheating piece of shits face the next morning when I came out of his Moms room, but I decided it wasn't respectful to use her just to get revenge on him.

I said no to a line of Cocaine. I was already high on weed, alcohol, speed and ecstasy but even in the 3rd day of a 24/7 binge I recognized this guy wanted to hook me. He saw an opportunity in me and the others there and asked me first because he thought the others would follow what I did. He was mostly right about that bar one but I think she'd had it before. He implied I was scared and I shrugged my shoulders because I didn't care at all what he thought. Not long after that I ditched the drugs completely and that group of friends(besides a couple) followed after that.

It was a big turning point for me.

A gay co-worker got me drunk af during a friend's trip to a cabin at a ski resort. I woke up to him pulling my pants off. Many "no's" were said.

I turned down a 5% stock package at a startup because their best salary offer was around 5k less than the job I had at the time, and I was due for a modest raise. That startup did very well, and I missed out on a large sum. I still feel I made the right call, but there's always the "what if" factor.

Also, I said no to heroin one time. A very different kind of "what if."

She was fat

Hot friend in college, it was one of my few nights of partying were I wasn't blackout drunk and I walked her back to her dorm room instead. Her sober roommate thanked me and got her to bed while I walked away with mixed feelings of regret and satisfaction over doing the right thing.

I also stopped my wife at least one time (she claims it was more than once) when we first started dating because I was drunk and wanted to be sober our first time.

No.