I just could never understand how who you fuck defines your entire being.
Seems to me that the people who make that defense are purposefully defining their entire beings based on who thy fuck. Like they project onto themselves what they think others are thinking.
Does that make sense? I haven't had much coffee yet today.
So, because they define themselves based on who they fuck, they assume that EVERYONE defines them on who they fuck.
I guess that makes sense - I have never really cared if a person liked to fuck multiple people, liked skinny or fat, ugly or pretty, tall or short, man or woman, black or white, foreign or domestic. It's just putting a physical act that happens, at most a few hours a week, as the end all, be all of your existence.
I still don't understand how that single act can make that purposeful definition of their being. There are so many more things that matter in life than sticking a dick in , or getting stuck by a dick - how do you treat your family, how do you treat animals, how well you do your job, how well you play with others, how you act towards your god/God, how well you maintain your home, how well you maintain yourself, do you have a sense of humor, are you moody AF, do you entertain others or make them laugh, do you challenge others beliefs with dignity and grace, how is your intellect, do you read good books, do you make good conversation, are you interesting in other ways than where you put your dick?
I choose to define and assess people based on THOSE things, rather than who you let touch your dick or pussy.
Yeah, I never really cared about what other people do (consenting adults, mind you) as long as they don't impact other people against their will. Your right to swing your fist ends when it contacts my nose, and all that.
...rather than who you let touch your dick or pussy.
Are you assuming only two genders? How dare you, you something-phobe! /s
When I first started having this discussion about "gay rights" back in the late 90's, my biggest issue was this point. A pro-"gay rights" person would claim, I am being fired because I am gay! My response was, how do they know you are gay, and second, how do they prove you are gay? Additionally, if "gay rights" are put into place, what stops ANY fired person from claiming the same "I was fired for being gay" defense? Do you have to perform a gay act in front of a court or in the HR Director's office to prove your gayness?
I just could never understand how who you fuck defines your entire being.